My boyfriend is honestly a great guy. He’s loyal, handsome, affectionate, and treats me really well. We’ve been together for a while and he’s never cheated or disrespected me.

But lately I’ve been getting turned off by how insecure he acts over my social media.

I post cute pictures, bikini pics, fitted dresses, selfies, stuff like that. Yeah, guys comment heart eyes and DM me a lot, but I’m not physically cheating on him or meeting up with anybody.

The problem is he constantly brings it up.

He says some of my pictures are “thirst traps” and that entertaining attention from other men while in a relationship is disrespectful. I keep telling him he’s insecure and that grown women should be able to post whatever they want without being controlled.

Honestly, the more he complains about it, the less attracted I feel to him. At this point I’m lowkey considering ending the relationship because his insecurity is becoming exhausting.

Part of me even feels like if a man can’t handle attention coming toward his girlfriend, he shouldn’t date an attractive woman in the first place.

Now I’m wondering if I’m wrong… or if he’s just too insecure for me.